Hilary Duff recently shared her candid anxieties about her marriage to musician Matthew Koma, jokingly suggesting she fears he will leave her for a more “cool” indie songwriter. The revelation came during an interview with Rolling Stone, where Duff confessed her recurring worry.
Mutual Acknowledgment of the Possibility
Koma responded to his wife’s statement with surprising agreement, stating that her fear is “so insane… but also very real.” He acknowledged that such emotional insecurities are common in relationships, particularly in creative fields where partners interact with attractive and talented individuals.
Relationship Timeline
Duff and Koma initially connected during the production of Duff’s 2013 album, Breathe In. Breathe Out. However, they didn’t pursue a romantic relationship until 2017, experiencing a brief split shortly after. They reconciled, became engaged in 2019, and married on December 21 of the same year.
Family and Prior Relationships
The couple now shares three children together: Banks Violet (born 2018), Mae (born 2021), and Townes Meadow (born 2024). Duff also has a son, Luca, from a previous relationship with Mike Comrie. Koma’s previous high-profile relationship was with Carly Rae Jepsen, which reportedly inspired her 2013 single “Tonight I’m Getting Over You”. Despite the breakup, the two remained amicable.
Resilience in Romance
Duff has publicly discussed the resilience of her romance, referencing Selena Gomez’s sentiment on timing being crucial for relationships. She has expressed that their third attempt at a relationship feels particularly strong, believing that past history and unresolved love can allow for future success if not too much damage has been done.
Duff’s candidness highlights the common insecurities within long-term relationships, even among celebrities. Her open acknowledgement of her fears and Koma’s agreement suggest a level of honesty in their dynamic that resonates with many couples.
